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Posted on November 24, 2023  |  Stress Less

December 2023

Let’s make this easy. Use my 2 resources (below) to keep up with busy days AND feel awesome!

1. TRAVEL WORKOUT videos

I engineered these 2 videos to work anywhere you go. Guest room/ hotel room & airport terminal. Watch the video, then scroll down to grab this now!

2. Eat more fiber

Fiber packed foods keep you full longer so you can get more done AND have less snack cravings. Perfect for holiday season!

High fiber foods also lower cholesterol, boost your energy (thanks to better poops) & reduce your risk of strokes & heart attacks (thanks to removing harmful arterial plaques)

Check out my oatmeal and smoothie videos below:

Click HERE for my List of high fiber foods and detailed guide

click HERE for Recipe with tips

Posted on March 10, 2023  |  Stress Less

Stands for Online Videos

Stop using your furniture and books to prop up your computer. Your form will suffer, you will mess up your back, neck and knees from craning & hunching to see the screen and adjusting your device after lifting.

Here’s the 3 set ups for your Tablet, iPad, Laptop and Phone!

  1.    For your Laptop, iPad & Tablets  = The  LIUGAST Foldable Laptop Stand 39.85  Amazon CLICK HERE

2.  Tripod for your Phone or DSLR Camera  Mannfrotto Compact Action Aluminum Tripod  $69.00 CLICK HERE

3.  Smart Phone Selfie Stick/ Tripod NOVASAT Selfie Stick Monopod with wireless remote $18.00 CLICK HERE 

Tagged: online, online workouts, set up, videos, virtual training

Posted on June 9, 2022  |  Stress Less

Sanity & Hope

It can be really hard to be human. Doing is easy, staying busy we can handle pretty well. It’s the Being that gets tricky.

When we slow down and just be, that’s when things can go downhill quickly. That is when we notice the voice in our head. This is the mind babbling as is navigates every scenario you approach in your day. Experts have proven that this voice is there to keep us safe.

There are 4 specific experts that I turn to often. I listen to their TED talks, read their articles and review practices from their books. They give me sanity and hope often.  I thought I’d share them with you.

All four experts (below) agree that this voice is there to keep us safe.  Each one explains what this voice is, from a scientific viewpoint.  They also all offer simple, strategic ways to navigate daily life and find peace of mind.

Below are 4 science backed resources that help us all understand and navigate that voice so you can have easier days and feel better.

**Also, turns out Oprah backs all four of these amazing guides as well!  I’ve left links to free and quick  resources from each guide/author.

  1. Dr. Kristin Neff. Professor and author on self-compassion. The science behind why it gets us out of depression and why it helps us achieve more and feel better.

Article from Oprah Magazine: https://www.oprah.com/inspiration/how-positive-self-talk-can-get-you-through-tough-times

Tara Brach Podcast with Kristin Neff.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tara-brach/id265264862?i=1000526041170

minutes 18-22 are gold in that podcast episode.

2. Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor,Ph.D, Neuro-Anatomist and Best Selling Author

CLICK here for free B.R.A.I.N  resource from Dr. Jill. I use this daily (no joke)

This woman saved my life.

Two years ago, I was struggling big time. I was feeling immensely fragile and hopeless. I had a therapy session and was advised to watch Dr. Jill’s Ted Talk and to check out her book, Whole Brain Living

That same evening I watched her Viral Ted TALK (The first TED talk to ever go viral)!

I immediately bought her Whole Brain Living Book. I finished it in one week and I use her B.R.A.I.N roadmap every single day.

This book is a must read for every living human.
It breakdowns what is happening in our human brain in a totally understandable way

Even more important, it teaches you how you can step out of your thoughts & easily navigate your choices to BE how you truly want to be in everyday life.

CLICK HERE for 15 min TED talk
CLICK HERE for 40 minute episode with OPRAH
CLICK HERE to buy her book

Every human should know this information. I wish I had known this before I turned 18.

3. Michael Singer, Teacher on “How to separate the voice in your head from the real you”

Best Selling Author of Untethered Soul +

CLICK HERE for his book
CLICK HERE for his Podcast
CLICK HERE for episode with Oprah

4. Eckhart Tolle. Author of A New Earth

Teaches people how to stop identifying with the thoughts in your mind. How to live in the present moment and how to let the voice in your head pass by.

CLICK HERE for 5 min clip on Oprah   HUGELY HELPFUL on thoughts of the past.   I watch this a few times a year ❤️

CLICK HERE for his book A New Earth

CLICK her for his Essential Teachings Podcast Hosted by Oprah Winfrey

Bonus guide if you’re into spirituality..

5. Marianne Williamson , A Return to Love

She is a spiritual guide, political activist and author. Her book a Return to Love sold more than 1.5 million copies and has been published in 23 different languages.

I never would have read her work until Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor (above) stated that A Return to Love helps her find calm and regain sanity. Once I heard that in a webinar from Dr. Taylor I bought the audiobook. Eight minutes in and I was floored.
Marianne Williamson had called me out in a direct and loving way. I have now read 4 more of her books.

A Return to Love has immensely helped me find hope in myself and humanity

CLICK HERE for her episode with OPRAH
CLICK HERE for her book
CLICK HERE for her site

Therapist Referrals:

Therapists in the Seattle area AND also do virtual coaching anywhere

  • alisonwithey.com (my therapist for the past 5 years. She is currently full)
  • conniecurlett.com (I have used Connie in the past and highly recommend her)
  • https://www.nancyhavercounseling.com
  • https://www.kathleendowdyoga.com/  Therapy through Yoga and Energy clearing
  • sensitivehearthealing.com
  • lightbydahn.com (My shamanic healer)
  • NAMI = National Association for Mental Illness. Fantastic Online Resource for information
    **Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor has been a huge contributor to their information!

Betterhelp.com    Click for info and to get started 

The world’s largest therapy service 100% online.

Making professional therapy accessible, affordable, and convenient — so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime and anywhere.

BetterHelp offers access to licensed, trained, experienced, and accredited psychologists (PhD / PsyD), marriage and family therapists (LMFT), clinical social workers (LCSW / LMSW), and board licensed professional counselors (LPC).

Tagged: Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, Eckhart Tolle, Marianne Williamson, mental health, mental health resources, Michael Singer, Oprah, the human brain, therapy, thoughtleaders

Posted on May 26, 2022  |  Stress Less

Hook Up Breath

This breathing practice will help you keep your shit together.

I used it twice yesterday after watching the news (Uvalde Elementary School shooting) . I’ve also brought it to many students during strength training sessions ( it helps them step out of worried thoughts and become more present in their bodies)

No matter what is going on, you can use this simple practice to tell your body you are okay. When you feel you are safe in your body, your brain will work with you to feel better.

If you want more tools to quickly save your shit CLICK HERE for my 3 Sanity Saver Videos.  Quick exercises custom created to  quickly calm you down and regain your sanity .

Now, scroll down for the Hook Up Breath steps and science

STEPS & SCIENCE

Hook Up Exercise•Standing, Lying or seated cross one foot over the other (legs
always straight).

•Stretch out your arms and cross them in front of your body.
•As they are crossed, have the palms of the right and left hands
touch together and lock fingers.
•Loop the hands underneath the arms and pull the arms close to
the chest (twisted into a pretzel).
•Hold this position for 2 to 5 minutes or for as long as you need to
calm your body.

** This is my favorite breath exercise. It links up both sides of the brain. This makes
the whole brain more available.

This is from Dr. Paul and Gail Dennison of The  Brain Gym CLICK HERE for info on them and their resources

Please share this with others and use for yourself. Take care of yourself and each other

Love, Bre

Tagged: brain gym, brain health, breath, help yourself, mental health, nercous system

Posted on April 27, 2021  |  Stress Less

Flip Flop Feet Video

It’s May of 2021. Flip Flop weather has already appeared (briefly) With more great sunny days ahead, you should totally enjoy being barefoot and strutting those flops. You will need to do a couple things to keep your feet from plantar fasciatis, knee pain and tight hips.

Watch the Video below and click the links for the products I mention. Your feet will stay feeling awesome with these simple tools. Enjoy!

CLICK LINKS below for Amazon links

  • Olukai Flip Flops
  • Chaco Flip Flops
  • RUBZ Foot ball
  • Tigertail roller

Tagged: flip flops, healthy feet, rubz ball, tiger tail

Posted on February 26, 2021  |  Stress Less

Critical Recovery

Nope this is not some high performance jaw compression sleeve to help my one arm push up (insert laugh here) . I am sporting a sexy ice pack due to my gum surgery yesterday.

After a few of these gum surgeries + some other life setbacks, I’ve developed a pretty sweet arsenal that gets me to heal faster and quickly feel better. I’ve put them below with exact steps to follow.

These tools are perfect for days/ times when you FEEL  1. Run down/ low immune  2.mentally and emotionally burned out 3.sluggish and bummed 4.Done in from crappy eating/overindulging out  AND for when you CANNOT Workout 

I cannot wait for you to tap into these – they help big time!

  1.  Sleep, reduce your work hours (if possible) and follow your Doctor’s orders  THEN

2. Get lots of greens in you ( See foods below in #4 as well)

I love these green juices – URBAN REMEDY, Glow(whole foods) and EVOLUTION, Essential Greens .** basically find a green juice that does NOT have fruit in it. We want the lowest sugar (even all natural) possible.  Go for 2 a day on critical care/ low activity days. Before a light breakfast (after coffee) and mid afternoon  (before light dinner)

3.  Tap into these 5 all natural supplements  to drastically reduce inflammation and help your nervous system.

  1. Arnica tablets – reduces swelling, bruising, joint inflammation.  Follow directions on box
  2. Fungi Perfect MYCO Shield – mushroom supplement that boosts your immune system big time
  3. 5-HTP pills-  Boost serotonin and lift your mood!  You make this naturally. Some of us humans have less. This can be due to genetic mood and emotional disorders or diets low in tryptophan. What you need to know is when you are sick or injured you need more of this. Low 5-HTP makes us feel super bummed out!  This is a serious game changer for me. Try 50 mg daily of  5-HTP (NOW or Stress-Relax are good brands)
  4. GOOD MOOD tincture by Herb Pharm. a mix of Ashwaganda & St. John’s wort. helps your nervous system chill out so you can feel more relaxed (also helps you sleep better *fine to take during the day)
  5. L.B.T capsules – I swear by these. Here’s a fun fact. When you poop less- you feel tired and sad. Ever seen a dog take a big poo?  It dances and trots energetically afterwards – before that it’s all slow and groany.. same with us! Boost your energy and help your immune system with this LOWER BOWEL TONIC all natural supplement from the HERBALIST – CLICK HERE for ingredients and to order  (Pro-tip:  When you lift and move less, you poop less. I take these on my rest days – Sundays and Thursdays- follow the directions)

4.  Super Healing foods.

All of this is what I’m tapping into big time the next 5 days. All items are high anti inflammatory (inflammatory= “pisses off the human body”). That is because they are high in Healthy fats, Omega-3’s, fiber, calcium, magnesium, iron and B- Vitamins. They are LOW in protein.  SUPER PRO TIP: you want to lower your protein when you are less active and not using muscle ( I cannot lift for 10 days – YIKES!  – so I am averaging 30 g protein a day)

** see me for more guidance on that.  brebrighter@gmail.com ** Also catch my video that goes with this + weekly tips on my Community Support Page CLICK HERE to feel stronger & have easier days

Tagged: anti inflammatroy, LBT, recovery

Posted on December 26, 2020  |  Stress Less

5 quick steps to make the changes you want.

It’s Jan 2021. For many that means deciding what changes need to be made. This could be as simple as you don’t have that snack before bed. Whatever it is, it’s a change. Change is hard. That is why I practice this 5 step system

I use it at least twice a day, it really is the magic key that is getting me to stop habits that hold me back from goals I want to reach.

BRE’s 5 Step System to stop bad habits

  1. Stop – literally do nothing else sit upright and put down all distractions (no phone, scrolling, writing, typing, wandering)
  2. Breathe– breathe in and out slowly through your nose. Do 4 counts in, hold for 7 counts and out for 8 slow counts.
  3. Feel. Name what you are feeling – get specific.. not just “anxiety”  maybe it’s “overwhelm, fear, panic, embarrasment
  4. STAY with that feeling for 90 seconds. Do the best you can – even 20 seconds can be a big deal CLICK HERE for Science on WHY 90 seconds
  5. Move your body lightly– just for a few seconds, shake out your legs, move your arms. Time to stay out of your head and in your body. Remember your head is where that pesky thought is hanging out.

Then make the next best possible step. This may mean, go to bed. Get out of the kitchen, go on a walk, get back to work.

I’ve put an example below with further explanation on why you must FEEL ( not think or take action) to stop bad habits.

As humans we want to stay in the comfort zone.  But the comfort zone is where we do worse. We get  sad, fat, frustrated and create more struggles for ourselves.

Consider this familiar comfort zone habit.  You are stuck in a routine of a cookie before bed. Is it really that big a deal?

I’d love to say no, but that’s a lie. A cookie 3 nights a week (even a Gluten Free, Dairy Free made with date sugar cookie) will cause you to sleep worse. By the time you wake up (6-8 hours later)Your body will be struggling on every level (lower immune system, your brain and muscles will not fire as well, you will be more hungry and crave more sugar)

So what do you do? There’s got to be a killer workout or super healthy green juice you can down. Those things might help, but they are a band aid, and you will simply be wasting your time, money and energy.

The #1 fix to stop your bad health habit is simple:  Allow yourself to Feel. You must feel  what is under your thought.

You can roll your eyes and sigh in frustration all you want.  There is no way around this simple tool. Try all the shortcuts – brush your teeth, go to bed early, do 5 push ups, get fresh air, drink tea. But this habit will return until you simply sit and feel and let that feeling pass through you.

Your feeling is in the driver’s seat, your brain and body are simply reacting.

So if you feel stressed, your body will respond with racing thoughts and a surge of cortisol, this will cause you to eat the cookie when you watch the evening news.  What if you don’t watch the evening news, you’re not stressed and you still want the cookie?  This is a pattern you have formed, a blueprint.

You have had the cookie enough times at the end of the day, that you have conditioned your body to feed it a cookie before bed.  And when you don’t eat the cookie, you get super uncomfortable.

The only way to get out of this pattern is to DO nothing but feel and breathe. You need to get you out of your head and into your body, light movement & fresh air help as well.What ever you do – do not distract yourself. Don’t pick up your phone, don’t check your email, don’t plan or make any lists. These distractions are keeping you in your bad habit loop. You must name the feeling so you can release it “Name it to tame it” 

It’s the magic key to stop that habit that’s holding you back. Once you identify what you are really feeling, your body will relax and your hormones will shift, your mind will ease up and your body will stop feeling in desperate need.

I wish I could tell you to do 5 squats or take an herbal supplement, but until you sit with that feeling, see it for what it really is- then it will unhook it’s grimy fingers from the drivers seat, so you can take back control.

We all have bad habits. We may not need to fix them unless they are holding us back from our goals. This is up to you to decide.

If you do- want to break a habit that is holding you back, follow my 5 step system. Do #1-5 in order anytime you the thought of your bad habit (scroll Facebook, drink wine, smoke, hit snooze, watch another NETFLIX episode..)

BRE’s 5 Step System to stop bad habits

  1. Stop – literally do nothing else sit upright and put down all distractions (no phone, scrolling, writing, typing, wandering)
  2. Breathe– breathe in and out slowly through your nose. Do 4 counts in, hold for 7 counts and out for 8 slow counts.
  3. Name your Feeling – get specific.. not just “anxiety”  maybe it’s “overwhelm, fear, panic, embarrasment
  4. STAY with that feeling for 90 seconds. Do the best you can – even 20 seconds can be a big deal CLICK HERE for Science on WHY 90 seconds will change you dramatically.
  5. Move your body lightly– just for a few seconds, shake out your legs, move your arms. Time to stay out of your head and in your body. Remember your head is where that pesky thought is hanging out.

Then make the next best possible step. This may mean, go to bed. Get out of the kitchen, go on a walk, get back to work.

My references on this are

  1. Dr. Joe Dispenza- Break the Habit of being yourself Click HERE for podcast
  2. Peter Crone – mind architect (works with Pro Athletes) CLICK HERE for info + podcast
  3. Dr. Joan Rosenthal – 90 second rule CLICK here for info + Podcast
  4. Sally Lefko – How to stop limiting beliefs CLICK here for info and podcast

If you need help with this -contact me. I create personalized plans with people so they can keep moving forward to their goals.

Email me at brebrighter@gmail.com OR call/text me at 206-310-9079 for a FREE 15 min consult.

Tagged: 5 steps to change, behavior change, feel don't think, New years 2020

Posted on October 27, 2020  |  Stress Less

Brene Brown with 2 pro’s on how to deal with stress & stop feeling exhausted.

This episode from “Unlocking Us” is a serious game changer. Not only does it apply to EVERY human right now, but it also hands us 5 super practical tools that we can use immediately.

Don’t deny yourself this info, CLICK here to listen now – even if you only have 5 mins Listen then come back to it over the next few days. It will make ANY day feel way easier:)  #knowbetterdobetter

Tagged: brene brown, Burnout, game changing podcast, Nagoski Sisters

Posted on August 28, 2020  |  Stress Less

Mood Meter App

THIS is a real game changer. After hearing Dr. Marc Brackett on Brene Brown’s podcast “Unlocking Us” I was floored. So many things he said rang true for me. The thing he said that really hooked me was that

” When we don’t know how we are feeling we 1. Become poor learners 2. Get less work done 3. Worsen our relationships”

That was enough right there for me. Before the podcast was over I downloaded his book “Permission to Feel” on Audible. The next day I got his App – the Mood Meter.  Here’s what this “feeling stuff” has been doing for me in the 2 months

  • 1. Lowered my food cravings / helped me eat less
  • 2. Got me to listen better to others (Huge in gaining more students & better relationship with my boyfriend)
  • 3. Helped me understand my humanness and ease up on myself – priceless!!

I strongly advise every human do this right now :

  1. Download Mood Meter (CLICK HERE ). Use it 3 times a day. When you feel unsettled and or snacky 
  2. Listen to the “Unlocking Us” Podcast episode below
  3. Keep using the mood meter – every day 3 times a day for a month

https://brenebrown.com/podcast/dr-marc-brackett-and-brene-on-permission-to-feel/

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/mood-meter-building-your-emotional/id825930113

Tagged: brene brown

Posted on July 31, 2020  |  Stress Less

Aug 2020 News

 I love that when we feel strong everything feels easier. That’s why I made these 3 new videos for you!  Customized for warm summer days.  Click on Each Below.  Watch, TAKE ACTION  & Enjoy

  #1 Protein salad recipe. Easy & delicious!

#2 Foot recovery moves. Strengthen & stay free from injury.

#3 Free Livestream workout to benefit BLM. Aug 6th, 7:10 AM.

Stay connected + create positive change together! 

Tagged: Aug 20 news, BLM workout, feet, protein salad

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